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Questionaire - how do you want to be loved?

LOVE LANGUAGE


Which is yours?


 


LOVE LANGUAGE QUESTIONNAIRE


Read each sentence – if it is true for you then ring the letter on the right


 





















































































































































































1


 



I always like to say hello and goodbye to people I care about with a hug, kiss, handshake or slap/pat on the shoulder



b



2



I always remember good and bad things people have said to me very clearly – I can remember the exact words



a



3



I love it when someone chooses me a present that shows they have really thought about what I like or need



d



4



I need people to tell me that they love and care about me – everyday if possible



a


 



5



I like to walk down the road holding hands with my partner



b



6



It is important that people who care for me think about what I might like to happen  - without me having to tell them



e



7



I know you are not meant to say this but for me the bigger the present the more people love you



d



8



If people are not prepared to put time aside to do things with me then they might as well not be my friend



c



9



I have a special song that means a lot to me because it describes a time or quality  in my relationship with my partner



a



10



I am touched when someone makes me a cup of tea without being asked



e



11


 


 



If my partner rejected me by physically pushing me away or saying they didn’t want sex I would feel hurt, upset and unloved



b


 


 



12


 



I always remember presents that people have given me even it is many years ago



d



13



When I am listening to music the words of the songs are the most important part of it



a



14



If my partner sent me a love letter I would read it over many times and keep it



a



15



It is really important for me choose the right present for the people I love at birthdays and Christmas - not just do it at the last minute



d



16



Time spent with the people I love is the best time of all – I have always made my family and friends the priority over work or my own interests



c



17



It is important that my partner would notice and be able to look after me when I was tired or upset



e



18



I don’t mind what I do with my partner – it could be just sitting having a cuppa together - it is good enough just to be with one another



c



 


19



 


I would be upset if someone I loved forgot a birthday or an anniversary – I would think they didn’t care



 


d



20



I love being held, touched or stroked when I need comfort or reassurance



b



21



When someone looks after me by tidying up my mess, mending something or cooking a meal - I can tell they care enough to put themselves out



e



22



When people tell me that they value me, care about me or are prepared to support me it means the world to me



a



23



People have sometimes told me that I have made a difference to their lives through being thoughtful and giving them what they needed



e



24



I like planning times and activities with friends and family that we can do together



c



25



I would/do enjoy being massaged



b



26



When I was a child,  Christmas and birthdays seemed very important to me. I really looked forward to my presents.  I can even remember an object I received as a child.  It showed my parents/carers really loved me.



d



27



If my partner said they were really proud of me - whether that was for doing something or for being brave  - it would encourage me



a



28



I like to curl up next to my partner in bed - not turn away to go to sleep



b



29



My family getting together for a meal and sharing time together is not only something I would enjoy but something I really need to happen on a regular basis



c



30



If people don’t make time to see me I feel unvalued and unimportant



c



31



Sex is very important to me – not just for the sex itself but because of the physical closeness



b



32



If my partner had prepared a surprise romantic meal for me I would be delighted



 e



33



When people phone up to say they want to see or visit me I know it is because they care



c



34



I would love it if my partner sent me a little present that meant something special or left a token on my pillow



d



35



I always seem to be giving out to others – I try to anticipate what they need and want – I think this allows people to feel loved



e



 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


SCORING
















































 



 


LOVE LANGUAGE


 



 


How Many?



 


Tick your top two love languages



 


Tick your partner’s top two love languages


 



 


a



 


Words


 



 


 



 



 



 


b



 


Physical Touch


 



 



 



 



 


c



 


Time Together


 



 



 



 



 


d



 


Receiving and Giving Presents


 



 



 



 



 


e



 


Thoughtful Acts


 



 



 



 



 


 


 


What is/are your main love language(s)……………………………………………


 


Tell your partner how you want them met in a practical way (two examples)………


 


What are your partners main love languages(s)………………………………………


 


Do you know how to meet them? Will you make every effort to meet them?


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